Putting your affairs in order, in your own time
Many older South Africans want their family to be looked after, but worry about the effort it would take to organise everything. The honest answer is that the most important parts can be done in a single weekend, with no stress.
What to think about now
The single most useful thing you can do for the family you leave behind is write down what you have, where it is, and what you would want.
- Confirm that your will is current and reflects your family today, not 20 years ago.
- Check the named executor is still alive, well, and willing to act.
- Make sure your beneficiary nominations on policies and retirement funds are up to date.
- Decide where the original will is kept - and tell at least two trusted people.
- Think about funeral wishes and whether you have a cover policy or sufficient cash to pay for it.
Documents and decisions that matter most
These are the small set of documents that make the biggest difference for the family who eventually has to act.
- An up-to-date, signed will, with two witnesses' signatures on every page.
- Identity document, marriage certificate (if applicable), and any divorce orders or antenuptial contracts.
- Title deeds, vehicle papers and policy schedules in one accessible place.
- A list of bank accounts with account numbers and the branches where they were opened.
- Funeral wishes - written briefly, signed and dated.
- A simple list of digital accounts and where the passwords are kept.
Conversations to have
Most families would rather have one or two slightly awkward conversations now than a year of confusion later.
- Tell the nominated executor that you have nominated them.
- Tell adult children where the will is kept, even if you do not show them the contents.
- Discuss with family whether you would prefer to remain at home or move to assisted living if your health changed.
- If you have a partner, agree how you would handle the death of the first to die.
Common South African pitfalls
These pitfalls are common because life moves on and small details fall behind.
- An out-of-date will that names a long-deceased executor or a beneficiary who has predeceased you.
- Beneficiary nominations on retirement funds and policies that no longer reflect your wishes.
- Original will lost or held by an attorney whose firm has since closed - keep a recent certified copy at home.
- Funeral cover that has lapsed because the debit order was bouncing.
- No record of online accounts, even though grandchildren may want photos and emails preserved.
This pathway is provided for general education only. It is not legal, tax or financial advice. Speak to a qualified professional before acting on any of it.
Curated reading for the elderly
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Read articleQuiet next steps
None of these are urgent. Pick the one that fits where you are today, or come back to them when you are ready.